Q. What do you call a woman who likes sex?
Q. What do you call a woman who has lots of sex?
Q. What do you call a woman who is employed as a prostitute?
A. Nothing but her name.
As someone who knows people in the sex industry, it really has become clear to me how easily it is to criticise a woman on her sexuality.
The label throw around all the time these days.
Im sure nearly every woman has been called this at some stage.
"Slut."
What makes a woman a slut?
Ive seen girls be called sluts when they have refused to sleep with someone.
Ive seen virgin ladies being called sluts.
Ive seen girls in short shorts be called sluts. For no other reason but their short shorts.
Whats the difference between slutty and sexy?
For me, i really think the difference is attitude and standards.
Its trashy to see chicks who will do anything with anyone, anywhere for nothing.
Its sexy to leave something for the imagination. The old rule- Chest or legs, never both.
When I was in a relationship, i realised i dressed differently, just as a respect to my partner.
I didn't start dressing like a nun or walking about in my knickers or anything drastic.
I was just a little toned down and my style a little less outrageous.
Now that i am single, I like to dress up and show off.
Im not ashamed to admit it, male attention is great!
Theres no better feeling then having your hair and makeup done, sweet outfit and heels and your dancing and someone offers to buy you a drink or wants to dance.
I don't always accept, but hey, they liked what they saw!
Instant mood lifter!
Does that make me a slut?
I got talking to a sex worker about her job once.
She was employed by a legal brothel and about my age.
She explained to me that she provides a service, just like a car mechanic or a beautician.
She told me how when someone comes in, all of the girls line up in their lingerie and introduce themselves (with alias names).
Then the guy picks one...or two... of the ladies, they have a chat and work out what will go down, then they go and do it.
The bill has already been paid, times up, goodbye sir.
She also explained how she could sit around all day and no one comes in or she simply does not get picked in the intros. She would make no money that day.
Why did she choose that job?
To be honest, I'm not sure. Ill have to ask her.
We catch up for a drink regularly, shes become a good friend of mine.
She comes to my place and she sits on the floor in a teeshirt and jeans.
She is very open and she makes me laugh till my sides hurt.
Do i dare say it?
She's just like a NORMAL person.
But she's a prostitute?
Yes.
I don't even think about her job, she's just a cool chick to me.
But I've seen her be called a slut because of her line of work... And that makes me pretty sad because if you spent 10 minutes talking with her you'd realise how normal she is. Because there are still people who will judge me for even being friends with someone in that industry!
I think its really time for the world to drop the word slut already.
We are sexual beings, its in our nature to have and want to have sex.
We were all alive because two people had sex.
And i think thats kind of beautiful.
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